又要面对可能改变我一生的抉择！该如何衡量？内心好多的挣扎，这次做的决定会有怎样的结果，没人能告诉我。
To have a choice to stay in US, I guess there will be some who would say, "What are you thinking about? Stay lah!" But this will mean I would not be able to see my beloved family and friends for another 2 years. 两年说长不长，说短不短，一个人独自地过，并非易事。The worst is to face everything here alone is not a mean feat, sometimes i just hated to bother others and to let others think that i am lousy for not being able to handle things on my own. Loneliness is sometimes so so hard to bear, i know i won't die from it, 可是眼泪却不听使唤，心在抽噎. 这决定我绝对不能后悔，遗憾总会有的但我不能后悔。
6 comments:
dont stay. why make your life miserable?? loneliness is not easy to endure...
depends on what is more important to u... family n frens or yr career ? which choice will make you happier ? go for that...
time n tide waits for no man... spend quality time with yr loved ones before its too late :)
to stay, or not to stay... decision is yours. think of why you need to struggle, think of wat is pulling or pushing you, and wat you want in life. do not bother about so much about wat other think of you. we don't live by the comments of other people. we come alone, and ultimately we leave alone. Do watever that made you happy and have no regrets during this life. all the best, my friend, regards dawn
Sometimes to do what makes me happy is at the sacrifice of another. I can't be too selfish too and that makes me feel making this decision difficult. Yes, Dawn, you are so right. We came alone and we will leave finally alone. Got to really think hard of what i should do. Thanks for all the advice, sis and friends!
hi cousin hui khoon, like what dawn said, to stay or not the decision is yours. opportunity only knocks once, consider consider! whatever it is, we wish you all the best!
thank you, doris! if you friends can fly over and accompany me, then perhaps this decision won't be hard to make...
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